Frequently Asked Questions
We Remember™ Account & Profile
How do I create an account?
We Remember accounts are free of charge. There are a few ways to create an account or sign in to We Remember:
Sign a page
If you aren’t logged in to We Remember, we create an account for you when you sign a page. This account works on the We Remember site and all memory pages.
Sign in with an existing account
Just click “Sign In” at the upper right corner of the page to log in with an existing account. If you have an Ancestry account already, you may use those credentials for We Remember.
Create an account at We Remember
If you would like to create an account before signing any pages, you can do that just by clicking “Sign Up” in the upper right corner of the page.
Do I need an Ancestry account?
No
You can create a free account on We Remember – we’ll automatically create an account for you when you sign your first memory page. If you already have an Ancestry account (free or paid), it will also work on We Remember. Alternatively, if you create an account on We Remember you can also use it to log in on Ancestry.
How do I change my name or photo?
Click your name in the upper right corner
From the menu, choose “Edit Profile.” This will allow you to change your name and photo across all memory pages. You can also update your relationship for the specific memory page you are visiting.
Can I control what notifications I receive?
Yes!
You can decide which email notifications you receive, and each memory page can have its own settings so that you only receive notifications you care about. To change your notification preferences for a specific memory page, "Page Settings" in the lower left corner. From the menu, choose “Communication Settings.”
What are the terms and conditions for We Remember?
When a user creates a page and/or account on We Remember, they are agreeing to Ancestry's terms and conditions
Friends & Family
Can I change my relationship
Yes!
You can specify your relationship to the person being memorialized when signing the page, but you can also change it anytime. To update your relationship with the person being memorialized, first, be sure you are on their memory page. Next, click your name in the upper right corner. From the menu, choose “Edit Profile” and at the bottom of your profile you can update the relationship you selected when signing the memory page.
Adding & Viewing Memories
What kind of memories can I add?
Stories
Share a favorite anecdote or memory. It can be as short or long as you like, and you can edit it later. You can also add one or more images to help tell your story.
Photos
Upload photos from your computer or mobile device, either one at a time or multiple at once. Add captions when you upload them or wait till later. Pictures of people and places, or even scanned documents make great memories. If you have multiple photos on the same topic, you may want to combine them into a Story to keep them together.
Questions
Tap into the knowledge of other guests. What would you like to know more about? Ask for information, memories, or even photos. See what you can do to jog their memory!
Who can see my memories?
Memory pages can be shared by anyone using a simple link. Anyone visiting the page can see the memory page, but when you add a memory, you can also choose the privacy level of the memory shared. You have two options when saving your memory (and can adjust your setting at any time):
1) Visible to Everyone
By default, a new memory you add is set to “Visible to Everyone.” Meaning anyone who visits the memory page can see your memory.
2) Signed Guests Only
When you add a memory, you have the option to set visibility to “Signed Guests Only.” Meaning only those who have signed the page can see the memory.
Blocked guests & memories
Additionally, the moderators for a memory page can block individual guests and memories from view if needed.
Can I make my memories private?
Yes!
When you add a memory, you have the option to set visibility to “Signed Guests Only.” Meaning only those who have signed the page can see the memory.
Why can't I add memories or comments?
There are a few possible reasons you may be unable to add memories or comments:
We Remember website may need to be refreshed
There may simply be an error in loading the screen. Try reloading the screen or visiting the memory page using a different internet browser.
You may have been logged out
You need to be logged in to a memory page in order to add memories or comments. If you’re not logged in, try signing the page or logging into the site.
The memory page might be set to "Closed"
The moderators of a memory page can set the page to “Closed.” This means that only the moderators are able to add memories and comments. If this is the case, there should be an indication at the bottom of the screen.
You may have been blocked
If needed, the moderators of a memory page can block a guest so that they are unable to post memories and comments. If you have been blocked you will see a message indicating this on the main screen. You can contact the owner of the memory page to try and resolve this issue.
Reporting Content
How do I report a concern with a memory page?
Click "Report" near the footer of the main screen
If you have a concern with a memory page on We Remember, just click “Report” near the bottom of the main screen. This will give you an email address to contact us with your concern.
Alternatives to reporting
Do you know the moderators of the memory page? Try messaging them directly to resolve the issue. If you are a moderator, you can also block individual memories if needed.
How do I report a memory?
Reporting a concern with a memory
If you notice a memory with inappropriate content, you can report it to the moderators of the memory page. Just click the “Report” option on the memory (across from the “Like” button). You’ll get a screen asking for details. We’ll send this on to the moderator(s) of the memory page and they will decide the appropriate action. When you report a memory it is immediately hidden until reviewed, so use this feature wisely.
Note: If you are a moderator, you will have a Block option instead of a Report option.
Alternatives to reporting
Do you know the person who wrote the memory? Try messaging them directly to resolve the issue.
How do I report a comment?
Reporting a concern with a comment
If you notice a comment with inappropriate content, you can report it to the moderators of the memory page. Just click on the three dots under the date of the comment and then select the “Report” option (below “Reply”). You’ll get a screen asking for details. We’ll send this on to the moderator(s) of the memorial and they will decide the appropriate action. When you report a comment it is immediately hidden until reviewed, so use this feature wisely.
Note: If you are a moderator, you will have a Block option instead of a Report option.
Alternatives to reporting
Do you know the person who made the comment? Try messaging them directly to resolve the issue.
Managing a We Remember Page
How do I choose who can add content?
Content Settings
If you are the moderator of a memory page, you can choose who can add memories and comments to the memory page. These options are set individually for each memory page. If you are a moderator, click "Page Settings" in the lower right corner and then choose “Privacy & Content Settings” from the menu. These are the options available to you.
"Open"
Anyone can sign the page and post memories, as well as decide if their memories are visible to everyone or just signed-in guests. Moderators can block guests or hide inappropriate posts.
"Approval Required"
Anyone can sign the page and add a memory. However, moderators must review and approve content before it is posted, and can block guests if necessary.
"Closed"
Although guests may view memories and comments, only moderators can post content. To gather more memories about your loved one, while still maintaining control, we recommend the Approval Required option.
Can I make my memory page private?
Memory pages are generally public, in that the memory page can be shared by anyone with a simple link and anyone visiting the page can see the memory page. You do have some privacy options, though.
Content Settings
If you are the moderator of a memory page, you can choose who can add memories and comments to the memory page. These options are set individually for each memory page. If you are a moderator, click "Page Settings" in the lower right corner and then choose “Privacy & Content Settings” from the menu.
Choosing who can view individual memories
When you or another guest adds a memory, you have the option to set visibility to “Signed Guests Only.” That means that only those who have signed the page can see the memory.
Blocking memories and guests
As the moderator of a memory page, if there are inappropriate memories or comments added to the memory page, you can block them (just look for the “Block” option on the memory or comment). If anyone you don’t want signs the page, you can also block them.
How do I block guests or content?
Blocking memories
As the moderator of a memory page, if you notice a memory with inappropriate content you can block it. Just click the “Block” option on the memory (across from the “Like” button) and it will be hidden from other guests. If you change your mind, just click “Unblock.”
Blocking comments
As the moderator of a memory page, if you notice a comment with inappropriate content you can block it. Just click on the three dots under the date of the comment and then select the “Block” option (below “Reply”) and it will be hidden from other guests. If you change your mind, just click “Unblock.”
Blocking guests
To block a guest, click their picture in Family & Friends section to access their profile, then click “Block.” Use this option wisely as it will remove them from Family & Friends, block all memories and comments they have added, and prevent them from adding content in the future. Changed your mind? Go back and click “Unblock” and all of their privileges will be restored.
How do I handle reported content?
Review the content, then Approve or Block
When a guest reports a memory or comment, we hide that content immediately and send all moderators an email. Click the link in the email to visit the reported memory or comment and select either “Approve” to show the content again, or “Block” to keep it hidden.
Reported memories also show up in the memory cards on the home page. They appear dimmed, with a flag icon. Just click them to review.
How does privacy work for the We Remember page of a living person?
For greater privacy, We Remember pages about living people can only be reached directly with a link. They aren’t available to search from We Remember. Also, birth years are not made visible.
How do I make a guest into a moderator?
Select "Moderator" from a profile view
To designate a moderator, click their picture in Family & Friends section to access their profile, then check “Moderator.” Changed your mind? Simply un-check the Moderator option and they go back to being a regular guest.
How do I delete a We Remember page?
It is important to note that a page may only be deleted if no others have added memories. Also, if it is a concern over privacy, please consider adjusting those controls by visiting the Privacy & Content settings before going through with the delete process. Privacy & Content settings can be found by visiting the page you would like to adjust, clicking your name in the upper right hand corner, and then selecting Privacy & Content settings.
To delete a memory page you have created, first, click “Page Settings” in the lower right corner. Then select “Delete Page.” Please help us understand the reason you are deleting by choosing a reason and offering some additional insight. Lastly, we will require you enter your password before completely deleting. Deleting a page is final, so please do not rush this decision.
A memory page was created for a loved one of mine and I don't know how?
First, we suggest you reach out to people you recognize in the Friends and Family section to see if someone has created the page. Second, if the Friends and Family section is empty we suggest scrolling to the bottom of the page to view the “Brought to you by” section to see if the page was created as a benefit to you and your family from an organization you are affiliated with… perhaps a funeral home, hospice, or non-profit organization. If so, reach out to that entity directly. If you still don’t know, feel free to reach out to us at support@weremember.com.
Why is a location needed when creating a memory page?
Due to the volume of pages created, We Remember often has multiple pages of people sharing the same name. The location offers those who would like to find the page of a loved one an additional data point by which to determine the correct page.