Whinery-Huddleston Funeral Service
Terry James Bourgeois, a man of honor and warmth, passed away peacefully on August 28, 2024, in Lawton, Oklahoma, at the age of 76. Born on February 27, 1948, in New Orleans, Louisiana, Terry was the beloved son of the late Wilson James Bourgeois and Mary Elizabeth Bourgeois. His life was a testament to the values of love, intelligence, and selflessness that he embodied.
Terry's journey was marked by a steadfast commitment to service. After obtaining his GED, he dedicated 24 years of his life to the United States Army, where he served with distinction and honor. Following his retirement from military service, he continued to contribute to the community at Fort Sill Base as a contractor instructor for 13 years, sharing his knowledge and experience with gratitude and generosity.
He was a loving husband to his wife, Elke Bourgeois, and a guiding figure to his stepchildren, Patrick and Dominick Batt. Terry's legacy of kindness and guidance also shone brightly in the life of his grandson, Austen Batt. His extended family, including his cousins Karen, Percy, Lance, Dwayne, and their spouses, will remember him fondly for the joy and stability he brought into their lives.
Terry's personal interests reflected the quiet depth of his character. An avid reader, he found solace and adventure within the pages of countless books. His collections of stamps and coins were a mirror of his appreciation for history and the wider world. These hobbies, though solitary in nature, were a bridge to the many friendships he cultivated throughout his life.
Those who knew Terry would describe him as a man who always put others before himself. His intelligence was not just evident in his strategic thinking and problem-solving skills, but also in the thoughtful conversations he shared with friends and family. His selfless nature was most apparent in the sacrifices he made for his country and the unwavering support he provided to his loved ones.
As we reflect on Terry's life, we are reminded of the words of the great Winston Churchill: "We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give." Terry gave immeasurably to all aspects of his life, and his contributions will continue to resonate with those who had the privilege of knowing him.
Terry James Bourgeois lived a life that was rich in love, learning, and selfless acts of kindness. His memory will be cherished and kept alive in the hearts of his family, friends, and all who were touched by his generous spirit. Though he has left this world, the impact of his life's work and the warmth of his presence will be felt for generations to come.
Graveside service with full Military Honors will be held at 12:30 pm, on Friday, September 6, 2024 at the Fort Sill Post Cemetery.
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