Hughes-Moquin Funeral Home
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Robert "Rob" Heady, Nelsonville, Ohio
Robert Heady passed away on Saturday, August 21, 2021. Rock and Roll's 4th best
all time drummer has ascended to Rock and Roll Heaven. Ranked only behind Neil
Peart, John Bonham, and Charlie Watts, and tied with Ringo Starr and Bun E. Carlos,
Rob, was known for his heavy and steady beat, as well as his versatility. He was 64.
Born in Sheltering Arms Hospital in Athens on December 21, 1956, Rob was the second
son and third child of Vera and James Robert Heady. Rob was a curious and rambunc-
tious child; he walked and talked earlier than his siblings, and the drum kit Bob and Vera
got for him around the age of 6 set his life's path.
Rob was a 1975 graduate of Athens High School. Second in family athletic ability to his
sister, Susan, Rob excelled at Butt Barrel Football and Ice Hockey. Rob was one of those
guys that whooshed by you at Bird Arena. Rob was involved with several bands and
jamming partners during this time as well. The din emanating from his childhood home
at 62 Sunnyside Drive let the east side of Athens know that Rock and Roll was here
to stay; culminating in that parent's nightmare, "Phlegm and the Dukes". Rob also worked
throughout his teen years, including stints at Miller's Chicken and Burr Oak Lodge. He
also wrote funny and memorable album reviews for Athens High's newspaper, The
Matrix.
After high school, Rob briefly attended Ohio University, but he decided to pursue his dreams
of Rock and Roll and female companionship. Rob was a fixture of the Athens uptown scene
in the mid to late '70s, during which time he joined with Bill Whitlatch and Steve Smart to
form one of Southeast Ohio's legendary power trios, "Heathen". After this, he moved to
Columbus, where he joined the band "Macbeth". After Macbeth, Rob played and toured across
the country with "The Steve Yates Band", and then moving onto "Data Base". These two
latter bands showed Rob's adaptability and versatility in playing songs that spanned the genres
of Pop, Rock, Country, Disco, and Funk.
Marriage and fatherhood settled Rob down in the mid '80s, and the drums went into storage.
Rob's greatest accomplishment was Father, and he and his son, James Robert Joseph Heady,
forged a bond that death can not break.
In 1989, Rob answered a tryout request from the fabled Heavy Metal band, "Blitzkrieg", and it
was here that Rob found not only a band, but a brotherhood. Phil Moon, Lyle Moon, and Ed
Sisson clicked immediately, and they made a joyous noise for 30 years. Rob is now gone from us,
but he leaves behind family, friends, and an unmatched fan base that knew Rob valued and cared
for them all.
Rob is survived by his son, James Robert Joseph Heady of Athens; brothers Samuel Curtis (Rebecca)
Heady of Union and James Heady of Nelsonville, and sister Susan Lynn (Steve) Shafer of Nelsonville.
Rob is also survived by several aunts and uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, great nieces and great
nephews. One of Rob's former wives, Leah Davis, of Pomona, Illinois, was instrumental in providing Rob
with loving care during his final journey. Their marriage did not last, but their promises to each other
were kept.
Rob loved deeply and passionately, and he received it back on a huge and wonderful scale, as so many
that he knew and touched took care of him and made him know he was so loved and valued. A partial
list follows:
Greg Hanning and his son. Dutch Rutter, Rob's neighbor and security system. Steve and Susan Shafer,
who took Rob to every appointment and treatment, and were constant sources of hope for Rob. Peggy
Sisson, RN, who helped Leah with Rob and gave him great care. Nurses Shane and Heather, of Shriver's
Hospice, gave Rob as much comfort and dignity as they could as Rob slowly, and then with
swift suddenness, lost his heroic struggle against pancreatic cancer.
Rhonda Moon and Lyle Moon, who organized a benefit for Rob, all who helped and attended the benefit,
it gave Rob his last and fitting encore, and his last time behind the drums.
Thanks also to Shannon Wollenberg, Rob's boss at his place of employment for over 20 years, Rent-2-Own.
Shannon started a GoFundMe page for Rob to help with his financial situation. The owner of Rent-2-Own,
Mike Tissot, was a constant in Rob's life, especially during his sickness. People like Shannon and Mike
let you know how companies should be operated.
We love you, Pard, and we're glad you're safe and free.
Good night, Sweet Prince!
Arrangements are by Hughes Moquin Funeral Home where you may send the family a message of sympathy or sign the online guestbook at www.hughesmoquinfuneralhome.com.
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