Kenneth E. Hay
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Kenneth E. Hay, 75, of The Villages, FL (formally of Batavia, NY and Ogunquit, ME)
passed away peacefully on February 28, 2023. Ken, as he was known to his friends
and family, was born on January, 26, 1948 in Bergen, NY to the late Herbert and
Eleanor Hay. After graduating from Bergen High School he attended The State
University of New York at Fredonia for Music and, after graduation, began his career as
a high school band instructor.
Ken, was honored to pass on his love of music to so many youth throughout his 35
year career as an educator and is adored by thousands of students he taught over his
35 year career . After his retirement from education, Ken was not done with his
musical life. Upon moving to The Villages he was the conductor of The Villages
Orchestra for several years and also played the clarinet in The Bands of The Villages.
In addition to music, Ken was also an avid fan of the New York Yankees and Buffalo
Bills and rarely missed a game of either team. He enjoyed socializing through the many
avenues offered in the Villages, including The AED Club, of which he was a founding
member. He looked forward to joining his daily "Coffee Club" at Panera at Lake Sumter
Landing to start each day. He also was an avid fisherman and spent many days out on
the water.
Ken, a loving and devoted husband and father, is survived by his wife of 53 years,
Melinda; his daughter Meagan (Matt) Buckley of Batavia, NY. Ken is pre-deceased by
his sister Carol and survived by her husband, Gary Zimmer, of Brockport, NY and their
children Cathy and Brian.
Ken will be dearly missed by his family, friends, students and countless people who
were impacted by him throughout his life.
A celebration of life will be held at 11am on March 25, 2023 at New Covenant United
Methodist Church in The Villages. In lieu of flowers or gifts, a donation in Ken's name
can be made to New Covenant United Methodist Church in The Villages or The
Lakewood Drive AED Club (c/o Bill Dennehy, 1656 Latta Court, The Villages, FL 32162)